My sexual orientation.

[Oh_hunnihunni]

Oooh I have one! How about those bastard scammers who make passionate love to ladies of a certain age and con all their money out of their desperate need for ongoing bonkage and dreams of a companionable old age?

Now there's a target worth vomiting hate and spite upon...

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Ahhh, if you show me yours I show you mine? Risky, I suspect I can match if not outdo...

And yes, victimhood can be a choice. This is part of my argument, that revolves around understanding acceptance and choices being part of maturity.

That, and understanding that picking our battles is a path to a quiet and  calm inner life. As in 'don't sweat the little stuff'..

So how often do you wave yours in the face of others expecting an indulgence of some sort?

Well, that depends on the number of glasses I have sipped...