24-04-2022, 11:29 AM
(24-04-2022, 10:45 AM)Oh_hunnihunni Wrote: Ahhh, if you show me yours I show you mine? Risky, I suspect I can match if not outdo...So how often do you wave yours in the face of others expecting an indulgence of some sort?
And yes, victimhood can be a choice. This is part of my argument, that revolves around understanding acceptance and choices being part of maturity.
That, and understanding that picking our battles is a path to a quiet and  calm inner life. As in 'don't sweat the little stuff'..