So far, we seem to have

[Wainuiguy]

Quite different knowing you have HIV and infecting others.  In many cases people won't know they are infected.  I wouldn't blame someone struggling to pay their bill for not being tested because it could mean a significant drop in income

and if they infected you? you end up with long covid or worse? still good with that?

How would I know?  How would you know?  You see worrying about such things is as helpful as chewing gum to solve a algebra problem.