27-12-2021, 05:16 PM
Sadly, this is the downside of covid, and families being divided over it.
It is an odd situation, with your husband going to his Mums house where the wedding is going to be, and setting up the livestream, then having to leave it. I think I might feel quite put out by that as well.
About the present, I'm of the mind, that two wrongs don't make a right. If you didn't buy them a gift, then they might feel hurt about that, so it's then a lose-lose. I think that I'd have to buy them something still, just so that you feel like you've done the right thing. It is a gift that you are giving, to celebrate their marriage, and you are family still, no matter what.
What does your husband think about the gift giving??
It is an odd situation, with your husband going to his Mums house where the wedding is going to be, and setting up the livestream, then having to leave it. I think I might feel quite put out by that as well.
About the present, I'm of the mind, that two wrongs don't make a right. If you didn't buy them a gift, then they might feel hurt about that, so it's then a lose-lose. I think that I'd have to buy them something still, just so that you feel like you've done the right thing. It is a gift that you are giving, to celebrate their marriage, and you are family still, no matter what.
What does your husband think about the gift giving??
Be the kind of woman, that when your feet hit the floor each morning, the devil goes "oh crap, she's up".