16-12-2021, 06:01 PM
(This post was last modified: 16-12-2021, 06:02 PM by an amniote.)
(16-12-2021, 05:49 PM)Lilith7 Wrote:I'm reserved and don't get out much and find it hard to make friends, and we've only really known each other for a few months. I'm so lucky to have her in my life and will probably cry when I next see her!(16-12-2021, 05:38 PM)an amniote Wrote: I'm beyond thankful for my friend's understanding and forgiveness.That's lovely - its always hard to lose good friends.
I was super tired and read a text she'd sent as telling me she was no longer interested in helping me with something new that I'm working on, rudely. And I sent her a really mean reply before I went to bed.
She was baffled and hurt. She even thought I wanted to end our friendship. The next day, after I realized I'd got it wrong (she was really telling herself not to be bossy and to STFU in full and in capitals), I sent her a contrite and apologetic reply and explained the situation and told her how much I appreciated her and her help, and that she was far from being bossy, and suggested we have a catch up soon.
I got a thumbs up and a rosy smiley face in return. I appreciate her even more, now!
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